1.His Body is Facing You
Are his shoulders pointed towards you as
he leans in your direction? "People
position their bodies in the direction
they want to go," says psychologist
Barbara Greenberg, Ph.D. If he's pointed
half out the door, don't give him a
second thought, but if he's fully frontal
while talking to you, that's a sure sign
he's interested.
2.He's Fidgeting a Little Bit
Much like women will toss their hair or
adjust their skirt while flirting, men also
exhibit these preening behaviors, says
Greenberg. Watch for guys squaring
their shoulders, straightening their shirts
or brushing the hair out of their eyes.
3.He Finds Things You Have in Common
Although the saying goes that opposites
attract, Greenberg stresses that
commonalities are crucial when it comes
to flirting. If a guy you're chatting with
makes note that he loves indie rock and
Italian food, too, then there's a big
chance he's interested in learning more
about you.
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4.He Prolongs Eye Contact
A guy might be flirting with you from
across the room and you're totally
missing it. If he locks in your gaze for
more than a few seconds, you know
something's up. "Brief contact is
acknowledging," says relationship expert
Christie Hartman, PhD. , author of It's
Not Him, It's You . "Once it's a couple of
seconds or more, that is an extremely
telling sign that he likes something about
you."
5.He Gives a Subtle Eyebrow Raise
Here's a weird but cool tip: Pay attention
to the subtle movements of his eyebrows.
"If a guy raises his eyebrows and quickly
puts them back down, that's usually a
sign he likes what he sees," says
Hartman.
6.He Remembers Little Details
An easy way to tell if he's flirting or not
is if he retains any information about
you, says Hartman. So if you've been
chatting for a while and he brings up
something you mentioned an hour ago,
he's definitely paying attention and
wants to hear more.
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